AddRoute now updates an existing route if one already exists for the
same (listener, hostname) pair, instead of returning AlreadyExists.
This makes repeated deploys idempotent — the MCP agent can register
routes on every deploy without needing to remove them first.
- DB: INSERT ... ON CONFLICT DO UPDATE (SQLite upsert)
- In-memory: overwrite existing route unconditionally
- gRPC: error code changed from AlreadyExists to Internal (for real DB errors)
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>